Nursing in public

Apr
2014
22

posted by on Breastfeeding, Natural Parenting

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Processed with VSCOcam with f2 presetI’ve read quite a few articles on nursing in public lately. From sentimental to logical to fiery & religious, there’s a lot to be said on feeding baby around town.

Several weeks ago I was at Disney and sat down by a mom who was nursing her baby (with a cover.) We casually began talking about how old our babies were when she made a comment like “I feel so weird, I never do this in public.” And I just felt sad for her. For moms everywhere. And what it really makes me wonder is why do we feel like there is something wrong or dirty or private about breastfeeding?

Historically breastfeeding has been way more socially accepted than it is now. Women in very modest cultures breastfed openly without concern (I love this photo of this mother in the 1800′s. Does she look like she cares? Nope.) It was the normal thing to do. Then somewhere in the past century or so American women for the most part stopped breastfeeding. And unfortunately it seems that we subsequently have forgotten that breasts have a purpose.

I imagine you already know that breastfeeding is important. So for us to create a culture where moms receive the support they need rather than being ostracized for doing what’s best for their children, our collective perception need to change.

A big part of the nursing in public debate seems to dwell on modesty. And I really do believe in modesty. But while I recognize that each unique culture has it’s own definition for that, I don’t believe that nursing in public is even an issue of modesty. It’s just feeding a baby.

While some may argue that breasts are sexual, they need to recognize that they are also functional. Women have breasts and men don’t so they can feed babies. I loved the way a friend put it as “you know that’s what they’re for, right? I mean, it’s not to look cute in your shirt.

I hope that someday we have a culture where nursing is so common that no one bats an eye when a mother feeds her baby in public. That it would be expected. As normal as seeing someone with a bottle of water. A baby on the breast. Babies need to eat.

But to be honest with you, once in awhile I feel uncomfortable feeding my baby when we’re out of the house. Sometime I wonder what people are thinking, or if they’re “offended”. Occasionally I use a cover (our sling), most of the time I don’t (it’s hot, and distracts her so she won’t eat anyway.) But what I remind myself is that when I breastfeed my baby, I am helping to create that culture. The more mothers who do, the more normal it becomes.

I know you may have different opinions. I typically avoid writing about “confrontational” topics because I just don’t like conflict. But I really believe this is important. That if we can change our perceptions, we will create a culture where nursing is the norm. For healthy babies, and healthy moms. It’s really matters.

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Easter weekend

Apr
2014
21

posted by on Holidays

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DSC_0995Easter weekend was really fun this year. This was our second year of giving the kids their baskets Saturday morning, and I really like our new tradition. It stretches out the holiday and lets us enjoy at a slower pace. This year the kids each got 6 books, plus some little toys, treats, & sunglasses. Kaden’s favorite is the Little Golden Book “A Day at the Seashore”, which we read as “Alia and Kaden went to the beach…” Alia’s favorite is “Baby Listens” and brings it to me to read it and in a really sweet voice says “baaaby”. DSC_1069 K got a Whole Foods chocolate bunny too. He thought it was a toy, but was rather pleased when he realized he could eat it ;)DSC_1012DSC_1119

Then we went to the town egg hunt. Kaden found a full basket of eggs. And he either didn’t notice or mind that we removed the candy from inside and gave it away to some older kids :)

They got their picture with the Easter bunny, which was cute. I thought Alia might mind, but she didn’t.

DSC_1276DSC_1441Sunday morning the kids found the eggs we’d colored earlier in the week. They looked so cute in their jammies and messy bed hair poking around the living room, getting so excited when they found one.DSC_1535DSC_1550After a (really great!) church service we went to Mimi’s, and had another egg hunt. These had little toy animals in them, which was fun! DSC_1745DSC_1880DSC_1951Later in the day we colored egg. Kaden really liked using markers & the shrink egg wrappers. And chose green for every one of the eggs he dyed. DSC_0056I gave Alia a slightly cracked egg to color in case she dropped it, and she colored it for a bit, and then started peeling it. She peeled it until she had the hard boiled egg split in half with the yellow stuff all over her tray. Now every egg she gets ahold of she starts trying to peel.DSC_0061DSC_0068We ended the day with Lady and the Tramp. Alia likes anything with “dogs!” & K liked it too, but whenever I ask him about it he says “I didn’t like the part when those dogs were in jail.”DSC_0107Hope you had a Happy Easter!DSC_0179

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It’s always a thrill to hear from gDiapers, so when they asked a couple weeks ago if I’d like to do some photos of their new good natured gPants & write on the theme of kindness (plus a giveaway! Read to the bottom…), I of course said yes!

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Kindness is something that for me comes naturally towards my own family. But for my introverted self, I feel a little more stretched when extending kindness to strangers. It’s easier to go about whatever I’m doing and just keep to myself. Interaction can feel vulnerable. Like taking a risk.

DSC_0185But as I’m growing older (and wiser? Can I say either of those yet at 25?) I feel like I’m learning more and more the impact of spreading kindness.

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One doesn’t have to look hard to see the bad in the world. In the media, on the news, there is plenty to go around every day.

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But kindness. A kind word, an act of kindness, a gentle gesture. Kindness can give people hope.

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That in our world, sometimes there will be bad. But there is always good too.

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And that hope is worth spreading.

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Spring Breakers

Mar
2014
26

posted by on Life

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March is a really fun month around here because we get to see so many friends from up north! I remember back when we discussed the pros and cons of moving to Florida from Minnesota, thinking how it wouldn’t be so bad because we’d still see all our friends and relatives when they’d vacation in Florida. I’m not sure we’d see so much of them if we’d moved to Montana ;)

This year we’ve had three waves of visitors so far! Lots of fun :)

Starting our spring break festivities at the Magic Kingdom.DSC_0073-2DSC_0065-2DSC_0068-2We loved seeing Keith & Vanessa! Remember when they got married?DSC_0050-2DSC_0026 DSC_0160DSC_0143-2DSC_0116She enjoyed It’s a Small World, even though you might not know it from her face ;)
DSC_0092DSC_0094DSC_0080-2I love that they added Rapunzel’s tower to Fantasyland. It’s magical.Processed with VSCOcam with f2 presetLittle Snow White watching big Snow White. DSC_0208-2She loved the Dream Along with Mickey show so much. She would bounce when she got excited and smiled & clapped & waved at Mickey and Minnie. It was so precious, made me cry <3DSC_0194-2 DSC_0219-2Papa Walt was our second visitor. DSC_0297Bella, I’m gonna need you to move…
DSC_0268Pancake breakfast.DSC_0345 Ballgame essentials.DSC_0355 On their way to Spring Training! (Except the girl in the nightgown. She was on her way to a nap ;)DSC_0380We went to Raglan Road for Valentine’s Day and it might be our new favorite place. We knew Landon’s dad would like it so we made a return trip. This time we sat outside (shorter wait with no reservation) & it was so nice! Live music, dancing, we could see the Downtown Disney balloon making its trips up and down, it was really great.DSC_0700 DSC_0654DSC_0672 DSC_0688 The citrus salmon salad was alright. I cut out dairy about a month ago – on some gallbladder-liver detox pills from the Chinese dr. & she says no dairy for three months :’( So this was not the Raglan Risotto. But for what it was, it was alright. Had to get a couple refills on the Irish soda bread to fill up, and that is delicious.DSC_0707Processed with VSCOcam with f2 presetAnd our third and final visitors for the month, Grandma Teff & Aunt Sandy. Alia can be a little slow to warm up.DSC_0727 I love having my grandma here. DSC_0738-2DSC_0794DSC_0815DSC_0860Considering Papa’s request for kisses.DSC_0840Family dinners are the best.
DSC_0878DSC_0883-2DSC_0891DSC_0888Finishing up our evening watching Tangled. The first time I saw Frozen I thought I liked Tangled better. But each time I see Frozen I like it more and more. (Ps “The Art of” Frozen/Tangled books are amazing. Got them for my birthday, love them.) I love that Frozen is in Norway. And on that note, Disney Cruise Line announced yesterday they’re doing a cruise in Norway next summer! How amazing would that be?? Could they send me for free? If I blog about it? A girl can dream…DSC_0903

18 month photos

Mar
2014
25

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DSC_0288I wanted to do “18 month photos” with Alia and she turned 19 months yesterday, so these were taken Sunday. The day before still counts, right? ;)

We took them in the same field as a few of my maternity photos with her, with her baby quilt as well.

Her sweet little bear is “good good”. Daddy got it for Alia when we were in Virginia & she was sick, for a “feel better” present. “Good good” is what Alia would say when we’d ask her “how are you?” and now it’s the bear’s name too :)
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